Monday, March 26, 2018

Is Interfaith Dialogue forbidden by Islam?

Interfaith dialogue or discourse has now become a part of religious work, at least in Europe and the Americas. Traditional Muslims who at one time opposed any dialogue with non-Muslims are now visible in conferences and seminars focusing on pluralism and religious harmony. So is the situation with many Christian and Jewish groups who never favored the idea of interfaith dialogue are not its parts.
However, there are still many in the Muslim and Christian and Jewish communities, especially in the US and Europe who reject it. Obviously, Christian and Jews have their own religious reasons for their stand, but among Muslims who reject it argue that the Quran and Sunnah do not permit Muslims to enter into any meaningful dialogue with non-Muslims including those who are described in the Quran as people of the book.
Those who reject the interfaith dialogue say that the Quran specifically addresses the issue of dialogue and friendship with Christians and Jews and strongly prohibits Muslims from pursuing that.
“O you, who have attained to faith! Do not take the Jews and the Christians for your allies: they are but allies of one another and whoever of you allies himself with them becomes, verily, one of them; behold, God does not guide such evildoers. 5:51”
Additionally, they quote some of the statements that a few earlier Muslim scholars had attributed to Prophet Muhammad as evidence of their rejection of interfaith dialogue. Some of these statements are reproduced here.
Adiy bin Hatim narrated that the Prophet (ﷺ) said: “The Jews are those whom Allah is angry with, and the Christians have strayed.” (Tirmidhi Vol 5, Book 33 and hadith 3954)
Abu Hurairah narrated: that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “Do not precede the Jews and the Christians with the Salam. And if one of you meets them in the path, then force them to its narrow portion.” (Tirmidhi, Vol 5, Book 40, hadith 2700)
 There are narrations on this subject from Ibn 'Umar, Anas, and Abu Basrah Al-Ghifari the Companion of the Prophet (ﷺ). One of the early Muslim scholars said Abu 'Eisa said that “This Hadith is Hasan Sahih. And regarding the meaning of this Hadith: “Do not precede the Jews and the Christians": Some of the people of knowledge said that it only means that it is disliked because it would be honoring them, and the Muslims were ordered to humiliate them. For this reason, when one of them is met on the path, then the path is not yielded to him, because doing so would amount to honoring them.”
 They also narrate the following statement to justify their stand Abu Burda reported on the authority of his father that Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) said: “No Muslim would die but Allah would admit in his stead a Jew or a Christian in Hellfire. 'Umar b. Abd al-'Aziz took an oath: By One besides Whom there is no god but He, thrice that his father had narrated that to him from Allah's Messenger (ﷺ). 
Abu Musa Al-Ash'ari  also reported a similar hadith that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “On the Day of Resurrection, Allah will deliver to every Muslim, a Jew or a Christian and say: 'This is your ransom from Hellfire.”
Obviously, no one can deny that these statements are not in the Quran or in the books of ahadith (sayings attributed to the Prophet). They are there and they have impacted the thinking of many Muslims. But do they really convey the essence of the message of Islam? Does the Quran really prevent Muslims from befriending Jews and Christians and people of other faiths? And does the Prophet really want Muslims to humiliate Jews and Christians? And will God send a Christian and a Jew to hellfire to free one Muslim sinner? If the answer is affirmative, then the Muslims claim that God is all-merciful, and his messenger was sent as a mercy to humankind and his message is for restoring the dignity of humanity is just propaganda and Islam is yet another religion that promotes hatred and anger against others.
The reality is that the verses of the Quran were interpreted in a specific context where even the most pious scholars could not see the divine grace and mercy beyond their own community. The Quran describes, itself a book for guidance and comfort to humanity. It invites its adherents to work for the unity of humanity, not for its division. It exhorts its believers to show respect to fellow human beings, regardless of their behavior or attitude.
The Quran specifically reminds the believers that every human being deserves a dignified existence.  NOW, INDEED, We have conferred dignity on the children of Adam, and borne them over land and sea, and provided for them sustenance out of the good things of life, and favored them far above most of Our creation: “ 17:70 
The Quran acknowledges that good people who have their rewards with their Sustainer are found in all religions.
“Verily, those who have attained to faith [in this divine writ], as well as those who follow the Jewish faith, and the Christians, and the Sabians   -All who believe in God and the Last Day and do righteous deeds shall have their reward with their Sustainer, and no fear need they have, and neither shall they grieve. 2:62 
“For, verily, those who have attained to faith [in this divine writ], as well as those who follow the Jewish faith, and the Sabians, And the Christians - all who believe in God and the Last Day and do righteous deeds - no fear need they have, and neither shall they grieve.” 5:69     
“Verily, as for those who have attained to faith [in this divine writ], and those who follow the Jewish faith, and the Sabians, And the Christians, and the Magians,  [On the one hand,] and those who are bent on ascribing divinity to aught but God, [on the other,]   verily God will decide between them on Resurrection Day: for, behold, God is a witness unto everything.” 22:17

How is it possible that the Quran would ask believers not to befriend those who are described decent by the divine himself? In this verse, the Quran specifically referred to the power elite at the time of the Prophet from among Christians, Jews and polytheists who were bent on distorting the divine guidance to serve their political and financial interests. The Quran warned the believers that such people cannot be the allies of the truth because they can compromise the truth for their gains. Did the Quran say that all Jews and all Christians until the end of the time would remain the enemy of Muslims? This is neither proved by history nor by any logic.
The Prophet understood the context of the divine message and that led him to send the early Muslims to Ethiopia to seek refuge in a Christian land under a Christian king.
Such was the respect for this Christian ruler, that the Prophet is said to have observed the funeral prayer when the news of his death reached him. Even though many Muslim scholars have tried to suggest that Negus had secretly converted to Islam, an assertion that has no foundation in any historical record of the time. It is also reported that the Ethiopian King was the one who brought the Prophet and Umma Habiba in matrimonial relations where Umma Habiba's husband who had accepted Christianity died.
How is it possible that God would ask Muslims not to befriend Christians and Jews when the Quran clearly permits Muslim men to marry Christian and Jewish women? Who could be a better friend than a wife?

Those who quote the ahadith saying that Muslims should not greet Jews and Christians, and should squeeze them on the road and humiliate them ignore the reality that the Prophet sent about 379 letters to non-Muslims and they all began with greetings to them. The idea that Jews and Christian pedestrians should be squeezed does not make any sense because when the Prophet saw a Jewish funeral passing by, he stood in its honor. Also, when some of his companions were furious at a non-Muslim for mistreating the Prophet, he admonished them to be polite. There are several examples suggesting that the Prophet paved the way for non-Muslims. It is obvious, that the statements attributed to the prophet are not accurate and does not reflect his personality or the Quranic message.
They also ignore the hadith that reminds Muslims of the origin of the fasting on the tenth of Muharram as was the practice of Jews and Christians of Medina.  

As far as the hadith that says that God would send a Jews and Christian to hellfire to save one Muslim from it is nothing but making a mockery of justice and decency. The Prophet must never have said it even if all the chains are suggesting accuracy because this statement conflicts the Quran and the character of the Prophet.
The Quran clearly states that no one will carry the burden of the other. Say: "Am I, then, to seek a sustainer other than God, when He is the Sustainer of all things?" And whatever [wrong] any human being commits rests upon him alone; and no bearer of burdens shall be made to bear another's burden.   And, in time, unto your Sustainer you all must return: and then He will make you. [truly] understand all that on which you were wont to differ. - 6:164. The Prophet would never say anything that goes against the Quran. The idea that for the sins of Muslims, Christians and Jews will be consigned to hellfire is blasphemy against God.
Neither the Prophet nor the Quran prevents Muslims from developing cordial relations with people regardless of their faith. The Quran warns people to avoid those who use people for their financial and political gains. Such people can be found in all religions and all communities. 
Interfaith dialogue gives an opportunity to every religious community to learn the truth about religions from those who claim to represent it. It does not seek conversion. It seeks a better understanding and those Muslims who misuse the Quran and the sayings of the Prophet, in fact, deny the verse of the Quran that says: O human beings! Behold, We have created you all out of a male and a female,  and have made you into nations and tribes so that you might come to know one another.  Verily, the noblest of you, in the sight of God is the one who is most deeply conscious of Him. Behold, God is all-knowing, all aware. - 49:13 

Thursday, March 15, 2018

Statistics Support Polyandry and not polygyny

by Dr. Aslam Abdullah

In our world, there are 50.4 percent men and 49.6 percent women. In countries where Muslims are in majority out of 1.5 billion (China and India and Russia not included) men outnumber women by almost two percent. Yet, people argue that if men do not marry multiple wives, they would leave a great majority of women unmarried. In their view, men must do this act of compassion and kindness.
Those who advocate multiple wives for a husband say that women outnumber me and hence men must take care of them by marrying more than one. Thirty-nine countries with a Muslim majority have more men than women. Fifteen have more women than men. In countries where women outnumber men the difference is minimal while in countries where men outnumber women, the difference is huge.
In Qatar, the UAE, Oman, Kuwait and Saudi Arabia, men outnumber women by 20 percent to 50 percent margin. In Turkey, Senegal, Malaysia, Bosnia, and Kirghizstan, women outnumber men by one to two percent.
Let us assume that most girls and boys in the Muslim world get married between the ages of 15 to 24.  In the this age category, in almost every Muslim majority country men outnumber women by 3 to 5 percent margin.
The argument that women outnumber men, hence a husband can take multiple wives is statistically a mute issue.
Have a look at the ratio of men and women in each of the Muslim majority and decide for yourself if the numbers justify multiple marriages.  I have included the population of the two countries where Muslims are in large number even though the country does not have a Muslim majority. They are China and India, where men outnumber women by at least 1.5 percent a huge difference when we look at the size of the population.
Some people would say that Allah has given permission for multiple wives and the Sunnah of the Prophet and companions also endorses it.  Of course, there is one verse in the Quran, but it refers to a particular situation in a tribal society with no concept of public welfare and of course, the Prophet Muhammad, and most prophets had multiple wives, but that again was within the context of their time and situation. They cannot be applied as general rules.
The general rule calls for monogamy.
Those who say that the number of gay men reduces the number of men seeking marriage with women are making an assumption. No statistics about gay men or women exist in the Muslim world and any conclusion based on assumptive numbers may be misleading.
There are people who suggest that if multiple marriages are not allowed, orphan and widows would remain helpless. Well, what about creating a welfare system that takes care of people in this situation. What about empowering women with skills and education that can make them self-sufficient? What about ensuring that their financial dependence is not exploited?
Yes, there might arise a situation where multiple wives may be justified, but that decision would be based on sociological conditions after deliberations involving both men and women. It will not be imposed on society in the name of God by some self-styled scholars.
 Country                                          Total               Men           Women
Qatar
2,168,673
76.50%
23.50%
United Arab Emirates
9,346,129
70.10%
29.90%
Oman
3,632,444
63.60%
36.40%
Bahrain
1,332,171
62.20%
37.80%
Kuwait
3,368,572
59.80%
40.20%
Saudi Arabia
28,828,870
57.50%
42.50%
Western Sahara
567,315
52.60%
47.40%
China
1,385,566,537
51.80%
48.20%
India
1,252,139,596
51.70%
48.30%
Pakistan
182,142,594
51.40%
48.60%
Equatorial Guinea
757,014
51.20%
48.80%
Jordan
7,273,799
51.00%
49.00%
Nigeria
173,615,345
50.90%
49.10%
Syrian Arab Republic
21,898,061
50.90%
49.10%
State of Palestine
4,326,295
50.80%
49.20%
Afghanistan
30,551,674
50.70%
49.30%
Brunei Darussalam
417,784
50.70%
49.30%
Bangladesh
156,594,962
50.60%
49.40%
Algeria
39,208,194
50.60%
49.40%
Iraq
33,765,232
50.60%
49.40%
Yemen
24,407,381
50.40%
49.60%
Niger
17,831,270
50.40%
49.60%
Mali
15,301,650
50.40%
49.60%
Mauritania
3,889,880
50.40%
49.60%
Comoros
734,917
50.40%
49.60%
Maldives
345,023
50.40%
49.60%
Indonesia
249,865,631
50.30%
49.70%
Iran (Islamic Republic of)
77,447,168
50.30%
49.70%
Iceland
329,535
50.30%
49.70%
Sudan
37,964,306
50.20%
49.80%
Tajikistan
8,207,834
50.20%
49.80%
Djibouti
872,932
50.20%
49.80%
Egypt
82,056,378
50.20%
49.80%
Malawi
16,362,567
50.10%
49.90%
Chad
12,825,314
50.10%
49.90%
Albania
3,173,271
50.10%
49.90%
Suriname
539,276
50.10%
49.90%
Cameroon
22,253,959
50.00%
50.00%
Libya
6,201,521
50.00%
50.00%
Eritrea
6,333,135
49.90%
50.10%
Uzbekistan
28,934,102
49.70%
50.30%
Burkina Faso
16,934,839
49.70%
50.30%
Somalia
10,495,583
49.70%
50.30%
Azerbaijan
9,413,420
49.70%
50.30%
Tunisia
10,996,515
49.60%
50.40%
Gambia
1,849,285
49.50%
50.50%
Morocco
33,008,150
49.40%
50.60%
Kyrgyzstan
5,547,548
49.30%
50.70%
Turkmenistan
5,240,072
49.20%
50.80%
Turkey
74,932,641
49.10%
50.90%
Senegal
14,133,280
49.00%
51.00%
Bosnia and Herzegovina
3,829,307
48.80%
51.20%
Malaysia
29,716,965
48.50%
51.50%
Kazakhstan
16,440,586
48.10%
51.90%